sexuality

Sluts and Subs and Feminist Non-Fiction

books, non-fiction, sexuality, writers 5th April 2020 Musings, Other Things 2 Comments

Not that much of a meme participant, but I’m enjoying May More’s current series as it involves talking about books. I shared one of my favourite fiction recommendations last week, and now we’re moving on to non-fiction. I’ve picked three … Continued

Celebrating with Sonder & Beam at the Vagina Museum

community, party, sexuality, women 5th March 2020 Events, Other Things

As those who know me will know, I’m usually up for a night out. I first encountered the group then known as Scarlet Ladies a couple of years ago, having previously heard good things about them. Recently, they’ve had something … Continued

Don’t Blame Porn For Misogyny – Blame History

history, misogyny, porn, sexuality, society 30th April 2018 Rantings

It seems to have been a comic called Marc Maron who came up with the term ‘unfuckable hate nerds’ to describe a particular sort of vile misogynist, and it’s a pretty good term. It’s entirely reasonable to be horrified by … Continued

‘Witch hunts’, whiners, predators and prudes

consent, politics, predatory behaviour, sexuality, whiners 3rd November 2017 Other Things, Rantings, Sex stuff

It didn’t take long for the whiners to show up, but then I didn’t expect it to. Some of them whined about ‘witch hunts’ (not noticing, of course, the irony in using a term that referenced what is often regarded … Continued

#Ssos and why this community matters

#Ssos, censorship, erotica, media, Patreon, sexuality 28th October 2017 Rantings, Sex stuff 2 Comments

Ssos, sex-positive, erotica, adult industry

This week’s Big News for all of us whose work involves sex in any way is more of the same, depressing shit. First, Patreon, which was proving a good income generator for writers, artists, photographers, film-makers dealing with erotic/adult themes, … Continued