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Celebrating with Sonder & Beam at the Vagina Museum

community, party, sexuality, women 5th March 2020 Events, Other Things

As those who know me will know, I’m usually up for a night out. I first encountered the group then known as Scarlet Ladies a couple of years ago, having previously heard good things about them. Recently, they’ve had something … Continued

A Study In Scarlet

#scarletladies, erotica, sex-positive, women 17th May 2018 Events, Sex stuff

I’d been hearing quite a few good things about Scarlet Ladies, a group for sex-positive women based in London, so I was thoroughly excited when I got asked to go along and join them for an evening dedicated to erotic … Continued

New Release: Corrupted – Erotica & Erotic Romance for the Modern Age

anthology, desire, erotica, new book, new release, women 10th March 2018 New Books

A while back, I put up a post which mentioned how a dream can sometimes be the starting point for a story. A little while later I had a very odd dream, that stayed on my mind all day and, … Continued

Butter and bumsex and realism and research

actors, authenticity, bumsex, fiction, films, mistreatment, research, women 15th December 2016 Other Things, Rantings

Blair Witch directors mistreatment actors

The ugly but fairly unsurprising news that the notorious butter fuelled anal scene in Last Tango In Paris was a real sexual assault set me thinking some tiresomely familiar thoughts about realism. I could just get all my feminist rage … Continued