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Eroticon: Why You Should Come

#eroticon, erotic fiction, sex blog, sex toys, writing, writing community 30th March 2019 Events, Sex stuff

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This post could have been called All The Reasons Why You Should Come, or Honestly, Really, You Should Come, or could have gone with the semi –official slogan of It’s Better When You Come but, whatever, let’s keep it simple. … Continued

My Spanking Valentine: sweet treats and smacked bums

girl on girl, photoshoot, sexy, spanking, valentine 14th February 2019 Other Things, Sex stuff 1 Comments

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Valentine’s Day is one of those festivals I don’t particularly bother myself about, except from a business point of view: everyone who sells sexy, naughty or sex-related novelty-type gear knows that February is a good month to hustle, and to … Continued

A Study In Scarlet

#scarletladies, erotica, sex-positive, women 17th May 2018 Events, Sex stuff

I’d been hearing quite a few good things about Scarlet Ladies, a group for sex-positive women based in London, so I was thoroughly excited when I got asked to go along and join them for an evening dedicated to erotic … Continued

Smut Slam in London: Our Lives Are Awesome!

entertainment, sex talk, sexy stories, Smut Slam 30th March 2018 Events, Sex stuff

Around this time last year, I was invited to be a judge at a Smut Slam in Windsor. I’d heard of the events, but never been before, so hadn’t known what to expect, but I still had a fab time. … Continued

Eroticon 2018 Meet & Greet

#eroticon, authors, conference, erotic fiction, sex blogging, sex writing 23rd February 2018 Events, Sex stuff 6 Comments

Zak Jane Keir, erotica writer, author, sex writer

Just about three weeks to go till this year’s Eroticon kicks off. It will be my fifth one, but I’m just as excited as I was the first time. Maybe more so, because now I know what I’m looking forward … Continued

Short Story: Solstice Yells

erotica, fiction, midwinter, short story, solstice 21st December 2017 Other Things, Sex stuff

Midwinter greetings, people! Here is an exactly seasonally appropriate short story for you. It was written about five years ago and tagged on to a self-published novella, but today seems like a good day to share it in its entirety. … Continued

#CatPerson: fiction, snobbery and morality

#catperson, erotica, stories, writers 16th December 2017 Rantings, Sex stuff

Once again, everyone’s suddenly making a fuss about a piece of fiction: Cat Person if you are the sort of person who doesn’t care for fiction but hates to be left out, I have some good news for you: it’s … Continued

Blissemas: some festive femdom and an extra prize

Christmas, erotica, femdom, Festive, story 12th December 2017 Events, Other Things, Sex stuff 5 Comments

Happy Blissemas! Yes, the season’s well under way now so this fun online smut party is running once again, with some great names having already shared their Christmassy/Midwinterish/Yuletiding ideas. As well as any comment on this post automatically putting you … Continued

Nancy Friday: a personal tribute

bloggers, erotica, fantasy, sex, women's sexuality, writing 8th November 2017 Musings, Sex stuff

Nancy Friday died last Sunday. I never met her, and I haven’t even read all of her books, but I do have to acknowledge her influence on my life, my views and my writing career. I discovered her work when … Continued

‘Witch hunts’, whiners, predators and prudes

consent, politics, predatory behaviour, sexuality, whiners 3rd November 2017 Other Things, Rantings, Sex stuff

It didn’t take long for the whiners to show up, but then I didn’t expect it to. Some of them whined about ‘witch hunts’ (not noticing, of course, the irony in using a term that referenced what is often regarded … Continued